About Paula

Life has a way of inviting evolution
For over twenty-five years, I worked as a registered counsellor and psychotherapist, supporting people through transition, change, identity, mediation, loss, faith, leadership, and complex life issues. My work drew from non-verbal communication, unconscious processing, language patterns, and deep listening to help people make sense of what may be happening beneath the surface.
Alongside this, I trained in spiritual accompaniment and began lay ministry training. I also developed my own writing, publishing, and reflective practice, learning not only how to shape words on the page, but how to help others find confidence in their own voice.
Over time, I found myself writing and publishing my own work, contributing magazine and newspaper articles, and guiding friends, colleagues, and writers as they brought their own ideas to life. This blend of listening, reflection, shaping, and helping people discover their authentic voice remains at the heart of my work today. Bringing people together and helping to discover their natural light seems to come naturally to me. Without ego, motive or agenda.
Busy Corner Books grew from a quiet corner of my own life — a place where words mattered, listening mattered, and people deserved to be met with dignity at every stage of their journey — acknowledgement being a large part of the process.
Writing, for me, has never been about performance. It's about process, honesty, authenticity, and finding language for what we already carry.
I now hold a Master of Arts in Creative Writing and am currently working on my Doctorate in Ministry, with a focus on spiritual formation, ethics, and reflective practice. My work sits at the crossroads of creativity, careful thought, ethical practice, and compassionate presence.
Some parts of a calling cannot be fully explained. My earthly father's life, love, faith, and encouragement shaped me in ways words can never fully hold. My Doctorate in Ministry is part of my response to that legacy: a way of honouring God, our Heavenly Father, serving others with greater integrity, and honouring the life of the father who helped shape my courage.
Busy Corner Books, Writing Well and ARCLIGHT™ are not therapy services. However, they are ethically grounded in trauma-aware, neurodiversity-informed, and accountable reflective practice. My work is supported by professional external supervision, who specialises in neurodiversity. I hold appropriate insurance, an appropriate enhanced disclosure check, and work within a clear safeguarding and ethical framework.
This is a space for careful attention, sensitive reflection, and meaningful personal or professional development.
Whether you arrive as a writer seeking clarity, a professional supporting others, a pastoral worker, or someone longing to make sense of your story, you will be met with care, compassion, integrity, and patience.
At its heart, Busy Corner Books is about honouring the person in front of me — and the quiet courage it takes to put words on a page.
Held by God, Serving Others
In 2023, an accident changed my body, my pace, and my life. It also deepened my calling.
I know something of what it means to begin again: to feel humbled by change, to climb slowly from a place I did not choose, and to discover God in the quietest and most painful places.
Through that process, I found that some gifts were not lost. They were being rekindled.
I do not lead from a platform. I seek to facilitate through faith, compassion, discernment, and a deep relationship with Father God. I believe ministry is much more than what happens from a pulpit, and I hope my work can sit as a thoughtful complement to the life of the Church, while also remaining respectful and accessible to people from different backgrounds and beliefs.
The Foundations of My Work
We are all individual, and I respect each person's beliefs and background.
As God rebuilt my own life, He also rekindled gifts that had been planted long ago. Busy Corner Books now stands on these foundations:
- writing and publishing
- guiding and encouraging others
- understanding emotional landscapes
- helping people discover their authentic voice
- true congruence from within
- holding safe and reflective spiritual space
- nurturing originality, courage, and discernment
- encouraging meaningful connection and mutual respect
- honouring each person's beliefs, provided they do not cause harm to another
Here, *therapeutic reflective writing is not only a craft. It can also become a place of reflection, healing, discernment, and gentle transformation.
Through Writing Well courses, the ARCLIGHT™ spiritual formation journey, and CPD/PD training, the heart remains the same: to help you reflect more deeply, find language for your experience, keep your own lamp topped up with oil, and grow through a process that honours who you are becoming.
*Therapeutic Reflective Writing Courses
These courses are not therapy. They are facilitated with careful listening, thoughtful guidance, and respect for each person's individual process. Many participants find the experience deeply meaningful, and at times, emotionally releasing.