ARCLIGHT™

Writing, reflection and room to grow, with Christ at the centre

We are all wonderfully made, and none quite the same as another.

We each bring our own experiences, gifts, questions, difficulties, hopes and ways of seeing the world. Yet life has a habit of knocking us about a bit. Sometimes we lose sight of who we are. Sometimes we become who other people expect us to be. Sometimes we know something needs to change, but we haven't the faintest idea where to start.

And sometimes we simply need somewhere safe enough to stop and think.

Arclight™ grew from this.

It is a Christian approach to reflective writing, creative exploration and attentive conversation, with Christ at the centre. It offers space to explore who you are, where you have been, what matters to you, and where God might be inviting you next.

You do not need to be a writer.

Your spelling and grammar do not need to be perfect.

Nobody is going to mark your work, compare it with somebody else's or tell you what you ought to have discovered.

You can come exactly as you are.

There is room to wonder, question, imagine, pray, laugh, sit quietly, change your mind and sometimes say, "I really don't know."

Questions are welcome here.

How Arclight™ began

Arclight™ was never invented around a boardroom table.

Its beginnings were much more personal.

Long before I knew it might one day become part of my professional and academic work, I had an imaginative world of tiny characters, villages, journeys and stories. Around 2008, this childhood inner world began developing into something much deeper.

Through it I found a way of expressing parts of myself that were difficult to put into ordinary words.

There was also a child within me who still yearned for a deeper parental love. Through prayer, Scripture and my relationship with Jesus, I gradually began to understand love, belonging and being held differently.

The imaginary world did not disappear as I grew older.

Instead, the adult me began to understand what the child had been doing.

Story, metaphor and imagination had provided somewhere to explore things that ordinary conversation could not always reach.

That understanding became one of the roots of Arclight™.

It is childlike without being childish.

It allows room to wonder while respecting the knowledge, life experience and freedom of the adult sitting with the page.

And sometimes a few words written on a piece of paper really can open a door.

Imagine a great big jigsaw

One of the easiest ways I can explain Arclight™ is through a jigsaw.

Imagine the whole of creation as one enormous jigsaw puzzle.

Every one of us is a piece.

Not one piece is exactly the same as another. Some sit on an edge. Some belong in a corner. Some appear to sit right in the middle of everything.

But every piece has its own shape and place.

If one were missing, the picture would not be quite the same.

Of course, human beings sometimes try to make themselves fit into spaces where they don't really belong.

We shave bits off ourselves.

We squash ourselves into corners.

We bend ourselves around somebody else's expectations.

We may even spend years trying to become the shape another person, organisation, church, family or society thinks we should be.

We can sometimes make ourselves almost fit.

But somewhere deep inside, something still feels wrong.

And that fascinates me.

Because what if the answer is not always to change the piece?

What if part of our journey is discovering more about the piece God made in the first place?

I believe God loves each one of us. I believe we have free will, and I also believe our lives have purpose.

Arclight™ is not about somebody else telling you what your purpose is.

It is another tool for the metaphorical hopper — a way of exploring, writing, questioning, praying and listening so that you can begin to recognise things for yourself, in relationship with God.

Getting out of the boat

I often return to Peter stepping out of the boat towards Jesus.

Peter did something courageous.

He stepped out.

Then he became frightened.

And he began to sink.

Jesus did not stand at a distance and tell him what a silly man he had been.

He reached for him.

I love that.

Faith does not mean we have all the answers before we move.

Sometimes we step out confidently.

Sometimes we wobble.

Sometimes we become frightened.

Sometimes we need to say, "Lord, help me."

Arclight™ makes room for all of that.

You don't need to arrive knowing where you are going.

Space to listen and discover

Arclight™ uses reflective writing, story, metaphor, creative exercises, attentive conversation and, where appropriate, prayer and Scripture.

You may explore an experience.

You may write three pages.

You may write three words.

You may draw something.

You may sit looking at a question for ten minutes and decide you are not ready to answer it.

That is still your process.

You choose what you write.

You choose what you share. You are not required to reveal private writing simply because you have written it.

My role is not to pull an answer out of you.

It is not to tell you what God is saying.

And it certainly is not to squeeze you into the jigsaw space I think you ought to occupy.

My role is to listen carefully, offer thoughtful questions, notice language and metaphor, and provide enough structure for reflection without taking ownership of what belongs to you.

I call myself a facilitator for a reason.

There is something humbling about being trusted with somebody else's thinking.

Christ at the centre

Arclight™ is Christian.

I do not want to disguise that.

Jesus is not something I add to the end of the process to make it Christian.

He is at its centre.

But putting Christ at the centre does not, to me, mean removing a person's ability to think, question or choose.

Quite the opposite.

I believe we can come to Christ truthfully.

That may include uncertainty.

It may include questions about Scripture.

It may include wrestling with things we have been taught.

It may include discovering that some of the beliefs we have carried belong more to other people's expectations than to God.

There is no requirement to pretend.

I would much rather somebody ask an awkward but genuine question than remain silent because they think Christians are not supposed to ask it.

Faith can deepen through honest reflection.

A strange journey of my own

Arclight™ has also grown through my own rather unexpected life journey.

I trained for many years in counselling and psychotherapy and spent more than twenty-five years listening to people, supporting them and learning about the extraordinary ways human beings make sense of their lives.

I became a writer and author.

I published books.

I worked with writers.

I trained further.

I explored spiritual accompaniment.

Then, rather later in life, I discovered I am autistic — which explained quite a lot!

I completed an MA in Creative Writing.

And now I am undertaking a Doctorate in Ministry at St Mary's University, Twickenham.

If you had told the girl who left school having scraped through English Language and Home Economics that she would one day complete a Master's degree and begin doctoral research, I am not quite sure what she would have said.

Probably something unrepeatable.

I spent years working in administration and assumed other people were the academic ones.

Apparently God had other ideas.

My own jigsaw piece has been knocked about over the years.

It has Sellotaped corners.

There are bits that have been glued back together.

Some edges have been torn.

There are places where I have tried very hard to fit where I didn't belong.

And still God seems to say, "We're not finished yet."

So I keep going.

Arclight™ and my doctoral research

My doctoral research is helping me examine some of the principles that have gradually developed through Arclight™.

In particular, I am exploring how structured reflective writing, alongside non-directive psychotherapy-informed conversation, can protect a person's autonomy and their own meaning-making.

Put much more simply:

How can I offer enough structure to help somebody reflect, without taking over their reflection?

That matters enormously to me.

I do not want somebody leaving an Arclight™ experience thinking:

"Paula told me what my answer is."

I would much rather hear:

"I noticed something I had never noticed before."

Alongside this are questions of faith, Biblical understanding, spiritual discernment, ethics, language, metaphor, safeguarding and the responsibility that comes with facilitating reflective work.

I have much more to learn.

That is partly why I am doing the Doctorate.

I don't believe gaining a qualification means somebody suddenly possesses all the answers.

If anything, studying at this level keeps showing me how much there is still to discover.

And so, as Arclight™ continues to grow, your prayers for this work would be very gratefully received.

What Arclight™ is — and what it isn't

Arclight™ offers opportunities for reflective writing, personal exploration and Christian spiritual growth.

It is being developed with careful attention to:

• safeguarding;
• accessibility;
• ethical boundaries;
• confidentiality;
• professional accountability;
• external supervision; and
• each person's right to make their own decisions.

Arclight™ is not counselling or psychotherapy.

It is not a crisis service.

It does not replace medical, psychological or other specialist professional support where that is needed.

It is also not intended to replace formal Spiritual Direction or spiritual accompaniment.

Arclight™ is something of its own.

A place to pause.

A place to write.

A place to wonder.

A place to ask difficult questions.

A place to explore who you are becoming.

And, above all, a place where Christ is welcome at the centre of that exploration.

The next step

I am currently developing the first Arclight™ pilot course.

This will be an eight-week Christian reflective journey for people who genuinely want to take part themselves — not because somebody else has decided they ought to.

I am looking for people prepared to be a little courageous.

People willing to think.

People willing to write.

People willing to ask questions.

People who might even be prepared, metaphorically speaking, to put one foot over the side of the boat and see what happens.

There will be room for individuality, but also the encouragement of being part of a small Christian group travelling alongside one another.

More information will follow as the pilot develops.

If you would like to hear about the pilot, explore Arclight™ for yourself, or discuss something for your church, community group or professional organisation, please contact me using the form below.

With every good wish,

Paula Anne Thwaite
Founder, Busy Corner Books
Home of Writing Well Lincolnshire and Arclight™

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Arclight™ is an original body of work created and developed by Paula Anne Thwaite through Busy Corner Books.

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